In theory? Yes... In practice? NO!?

I don't feel comfortable with men doing things and/or buying me things when we're datin. Which is weird since i'm super old fashioned and like men who pay for dates and try to be a gentleman (in theory) but in practice i don't, i start to feel really volnurable and i don't know why. Its almost like i feel embarressed or something. I feel like he has something over me now, and i lost my respect. (and i am the opposite of a feminist) Douse anyone else feel this way, or know why i should? I'm dating a few guys right now and its actually starting to get in the way.